Just when you accounted for your last few dollars of your wedding budget, we throw an often-forgotten cost into the mix—the tip. Believe it or not, although this expense is thought of as a “courtesy,” it’s just one of those things that are expected. But before dishing out the bills consider who, how much and if it’s already included in the contract. Here are a few tips on, pardon the pun, tipping.
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Set aside a gratuity budget.
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Read the fine print on contracts. Is gratuity already accounted for?
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Tip on the pre-tax amount, not on the total. 1
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Tip those who are considered service providers.
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For parking, coat or restroom attendants, request that they not put out tip jars.
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When someone has gone above and beyond, consider showing appreciation with a tip.
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Designate someone, usually the best man, to distribute tips.
“Who do I tip?”
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Makeup artist and hairstylist – 15% - 20%
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Officiant – Officaints may request you make a donation to the church or their organization. A flat fee is usually recommended during the final arrangements of consultation. 2
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Valet attendants – $1 - $2 per car
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Coat check - $1 - $2 per coat
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Restroom attendants - $1 - $2 per coat
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Transportation drivers - (may be included in contract) – 15% - 20%
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Waitstaff – (may be included in contract) – 15% - 20%
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Bartenders – (may be included in contract) – 10%
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Wedding Coordinators/Event Manager – 10%
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Musicians - $20 - $25 per musician
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DJ - $50 – $150
1. Emily Post: Wedding Etiquette p. 45